Monday, April 28, 2008

1, 2, 4


Every few days, someone asks me how old the boys are and I’ve been answering, “Almost 4, almost 2, and almost 1.” Looking forward to celebrating their birthdays puts me in the mood for a little update on each of them.

Owen crawls.
Favorite thing to put in his mouth: books
Favorite edible thing to put in his mouth: bananas, turkey, and bread
Favorite word: da da da na na da da na na
Favorite activities: Tasting toys, standing/cruising around furniture, taking a bath, getting attention from Samuel or Jude.

Jude talks.
Favorite book this week: Basketball lift-the-flap. Last month: Mommy Go Away. Yes, this does harm my self-esteem.
Favorite games: kick a ball, catch a ball, throw a ball. “Keys and balls” (aka Cranium’s Cariboo board game).
Guaranteed conversation starter: “Hey, Jude, remember that elephant we saw at the zoo?” (giggles) “Eat a gick! Effefant eat a gick! That be funny. See giwaffes. Eat bananas, watch giwaffes.” We saw an elephant bite a stick, and we ate bananas while sitting in the giraffe house. While there, his comment on the three giraffes with their backs turned to us was “Tails. Bottoms.”
Favorite thing to practice: any kind of fine motor skill – coloring, painting, buckling, putting things in or taking them out of a small container, zipping. “MYSELF! Do it MYSELF!”

Samuel runs.
Favorite game: cars and running. Recently, he refused to clean up his playdough. Suddenly overwhelmed by a desire to play Hot Wheels, I exclaimed, “Oh no! I was looking forward to playing cars with you after you finished cleaning up!” You’ve never such a happy, efficient playdough picker-upper.
Cool new skill: writing letters. He has learned a lot about the alphabet at school, and can write capital letters so that most are recognizable. Surprised me!
New fascinations: dinosaurs, spaceships
Old standard fascinations: trains, cars, trucks, airplanes
How he amuses me: Thinking aloud. Here’s a conversation we had recently while I was working on a copyediting project. I was feeling a little overwhelmed at the time.
Samuel: What are you doing?
Me: I’m working. Remember I told you that my work is thinking.
S: What’s wrong with you? Are you tired, Mama?
M: A little bit.
S: Jesus loves you, Mama.
M: Thank you for reminding me of that.
S: Jesus helps you in your mind.

Sunday, April 13, 2008

The Most Important Things

"Look at my cross of cars, Mama! It's a cross of cars!"

Monday, March 17, 2008

NCAA picks

Every year, my husband's family plays the NCAA men's basketball tournament brackets. They've encouraged me to play along, but I don't know ANYTHING about college basketball, so it's never seemed like fun. This year, I came up with a strategy: Samuel and I are playing together. Samuel is in charge of picking teams, and I am the secretary.

Over milk and pretzels this afternoon we made our picks. Except for my sentimental faves of Wisconsin, University of Louisville, and Duke, all the choices were Samuel's. According to the family rules, each round is chosen separately. These are picks for the first round. If Mississippi Valley (#16) beats UCLA (#1), I may have to take Samuel to Vegas.

East
North Carolina
Arkansas
Notre Dame
Washington
Oklahoma
Louisville
Butler (Selection announced while swallowing milk. "That's a hard word to say when you're drinking.")
Tennessee

Midwest
Kansas
Kent St.
Clemson
Vanderbilt
Kansas St.
Wisconsin
Davidson
Georgetown

South
Memphis
Oregon
Temple
Pittsburgh
Marquette
Stanford
St. Mary's
Texas

West
Mississippi Valley
BYU
Drake
San Diego
Purdue
Xavier
West Virginia
Duke

Sunday, March 16, 2008

Oh Susannah?

After church today, Samuel and I were talking about the children's sermon. I was asking Samuel if he remembered the special word the pastor talked about: Hosanna. I suggested that was probably a new word for him. He disagreed. "I know a song with that word! Hooooosanna, oh don't you cry for me!"

Monday, March 10, 2008

Juno

Last week Ben and I got to go on a date! We didn't have any family visiting to watch the kids; we got a real live teenager to babysit and went to the movies. It was very exciting.

Juno felt perfect to me. I was startled by how aptly it captured the emotions of the relationships in an adoption. So funny, so sweet, so sad. I haven't talked to any of our sons' birthparents about it. I'll be curious whether any of them choose to see it and/or like it. I give it 4 gold stars.

Tuesday, February 19, 2008

Primary Day


It's primary day in Wisconsin and the boys helped me cast my ballot. I love it! There's nothing like teaching your kids vocab words like "vote", "ballot", and "democracy" to inspire patriotic spirit.

Wednesday, February 13, 2008

Got the Blues

A Valentine's box arrived from Grandma and Grandpa today. Harmonicas were enclosed and heartfelt artistry ensued.